Suicide

I wanted to blog about this because some people think this is the easy way out. I hate to break it to everyone it's not. I know some of you are say well no duh. The thing that everyone has to understand is people are in danger. Everyone starts listen once the person is dead. Is that right? I think not. My Uncle committed suicide and my family started to listen. The truth is guys, we need to start listening no matter what. You see on the news about someone who committed suicide because of bullies or their family's. You start to listen don't you. Why? Because you knew that person and because you thought that something like this would never happen in the school. We need to listen up and start helping those who are in danger of themselves. I brought this up because their is a lot of suicide going on. You can't say that you have never thought of it. I bet 90% of you have thought about ending you life. I'll admit I thought about it. Why? Because of all the bullies. No started listening tell I came to school with cuts on my arms. So see people need to look for signs before you know it you class mate killed them selves. I want to help with kids who are dealing with suicide. If any of you is dealing with this please e-mail me and I'll talk to you guys. Just think twice before you do it. And also remember
there are people out there who care. 

MY E-MAIL-----> Kelseyisgood@hotmail.com 

How to live through life

Life is hard to live through. Why? Because you have so many challenges to go through.Some people want to go out the easy way or the hard way. The easy that some people choose is suicide but, that is not the answer the answer is to go the hard way and that is to live life tell it is time to go. Yes you can't deal with the pain but, there is ways that you can. I'll tell a little how I was able to deal with life. When I was 12 years old my parents split up. My mother blamed me for it and for the longest time I believed her. She abused me but, I was to scared to call the cops on her. I was depressed because my dad was my hero and I had no one else to go to besides friends. At age 13 I had my first heart break. I was dating the guy for 3 years. Yes it was hard but, I lived through it. The bad part of the break up was I was depressed because of my parents. The only way I thought that would be easy is to try and kill myself. Did it fell good. To me at the time yes. Is it the right thing to do no its not. If  I could go back in time i would of stopped my self from trying it. It's a bad habit to stop but i haven't done since then and I'm 17 years old. A lot of people will have problems in their life, you know what you can fight all of those problems and be the happiest person in life. If you are cutting and you do need help please e-mail me I'll be willing to help you. The one thing i am going to tell you guys is please don't drop out of school or do anything for a boy that the worst thing that you can do. If a boy tells you to do something that you don't want and if you can't don't do they will break up with you. Don't do it if they are going to be like that they aren't the one for you. Yes it will hurt but trust me you can get through it and you will find someone better than them. One thing that you need as advice is don't do anything that you don't want to do. Don't take that advice to hard. For example if you have a job you have to do because it's a job. Another example is school. Yes school is hard and you probably have a lot of drama. Look as drama as a good thing because you can see how society really is and maybe you can fix it. If you are having a tough life then try to live through it. If you can't then a guidance counselor is a good person to talk to.If you have problems with family then I can help big time. I had always had a hard time with my parents and I still do along with my family. I get made fund of sometimes because some of my family members say that i don't have depression and I'm doing it for attention. I'm not but I ignore them. The one thing that you guys can do is talk to them. Don't think that they will let up sometimes they don't. Tell them how you feel that's what I had done and it worked. If you are having trouble in school with bullies then stick up to them. If you show that they get to you then they are going to keep doing it and you don't want that. This is all of the tips that I can give for now if I come up with more I promise to add on to it.

If you have any request on what my new post should be e-mail me----> Kelseyisgood@hotmail.com

18

I turned 18 on December 2nd. I feel different a lot different though. The reason that I am posting this because 18 comes with a lot responsibility . Yes you feel like you can do anything that you can in the world. Hate to break the news to you, but you can't do what ever you want. Realize that you now have to pay taxes, you will be getting more hours at work, and you probably are getting ready for college. You might think well yeah  I don't have to listen to a blog. Yes you don't have to fallow the advice that I am giving. I'm here to help and believe me I have been through a lot. Life isn't easy. It can easily come back and bite you in the but. Life is hard and with 18 it comes with more reason to be even harder. Your parents might be making you pay the cell phone bill along with you own food. The reason that they probably are doing that is so they can show you how it will be. If
you move out on your own you wont have you parents help. You will have to pay bills, food, and gas. The one advice I will give. Try to live with your parents until 20 because you can have a few years to save up on things.I hope this post helps you through life. I also hope that my blog helps you through life also.

When I'm A Parent

When I become a parent I'm going to try and be their friends. I want that special bond with them. When I am a parents I'll give them a little more freedom like my dad did to me. I don't want them out partying 24/7 or anything. I want them to be able to have fun without them worrying that I will find out. I want them to come to me with any problem they have and I will listen. I will be strict like my mother is to me.I would also do a lot of things with them. I don't want us to be sitting at home and they rather be on the computer than be active. The one thing that I will make my kids do is help on the farm or around the house. They are not going to think that thing will handed down to them because nothing will be. I was raised to get a job at 14 and work for things around the house. I had to work for a cell phone. My kids are not going to turn 12 and say I need a cell phone. They are going to work for it and buy one on their own. They would get allowances but they have to work around the house. This world is hard and things wont be handed down to you and I want them to think that. I want to be their best friends but their worst enemy in seconds.

Depression

Hey again guys. I wanted to bring up a topic that most of us can relate to. As you can tell by the heading it's about depression.On November 6th 2013 we had a guest speaker talk to my Family Studies class about depression. She was telling us how she was depressed and the symptoms. She has a blog to about her depression and her recovery. You can find it at the end of this post if you want to go there and read what she had posted. It made me think I used to be depressed for many of reasons. It sucks i know it does. Some people won't even eat, sleep, or wont even want to leave the house. I had a hard time with my depression and I'm still going through it. It's going to be hard for a while because you feel like no one is there to help you even understand what your going through. What I did to help me and you guys can do it it. Get a notebook and write down you are feeling or how your day went, how every you want to do it. The one thing I will tell you about the notebook your writing in is if you don't want any one else to read it then make sure it isn't noticeable. I had one for 2 years and I still have it. My depression wasn't bad as it was a few years ago, then reason for that is I was writing down the things that was happening and  also little goal that I can do to help me be happy. It will be hard at first because some of us would be to depressed that we wont even want to write or anything. You don't have to write in a notebook its just an option to help you guys out. The other thing that you guys can do is talk to someone about it. I have to see a doctor and a professional about my depression. I am on pills and they suck. You mood changes along with your thoughts. Guys always get help when you are thinking about self harm. I used to cut but i stop because of my uncle.I had been in deep depression for 2 and half years now and I really don't know what true happiness is. These pills do work but I'm not telling you guys to go on pills. There are things to prevent them. Talk to friends, listen to music, and write stuff down. if you think friends wont help then go to a school councilor or a regular one. I'm seeing one every Tuesday and after we talk I feel a lot better. I just want all my readers to know I am also here for you guys and I love talking to people. I also loving helping people. That is the main reason I am going to be a Mental Health Specialist.

HERE IS MY E-MAIL IF ANYONE WANTS TO TALK TO ME-----> Kelseyisgood@hotmail.com


Here is Gwens Depression Recovery blog----->www.depressionrecovery-friend.blogspot.com/