Divorce

Some of us has dealt with a divorce. I always hated my mom of getting one because I'm a daddy's little girl. MY mom divorced my dad a day before mothers day so it made me not want to wish her one at all.
Its hard to deal with even at a young age, but when you are 21 one or so and your parents get one its not as big as of a deal if you were 14. I think when people get a divorce and they still have a kid at home its hard on them because with certain parents you have to decide on witch one to live with or something like that.for my divorce i had to live with my mom and see my dad on the weekends. I didn't get to chose that's what my mom decided to do and i think she had a good lawyer to have the judge to agree on. In some cases on the divorce of where to live sometimes the dad moves out and you stay in the house or the mom moves out and the dad stay there. In other cases they both move out and you live with one of the parents. I hated living with my mom during the weekdays and once every week go to my dads. I hated it. The reason is because I barley got to see my dad and that's who i wanted to be with. Also you hear your parents talk bad about the other and i didn't wanna hear that no one really wanted to. The divorce cost is easy if any adult is reading this. But if I got a divorce I would talk to the guy I'm divorcing. I wouldn't want to the kid to be with one parents on the weekdays then go to the other one for the weekends that not fair or right. I would also ask the kid of who they want to be with. I would have the kids or kid opinion on the things they want so they wont seem left out cause they are in this. I would move out of the house I'm living in with the guy I'm living with. I would find a place that i could afforded with the salary that I make. I would also try to stay int eh same town as the guy that I divorced so hey kid can see him when he wants. With child support I would ask my lawyer what i should do and me and the guy can possible work it out. The most thing that I would do is see what the kid wants cause I don't want them to hate me.